Every day I log on to Instagram to see loaves of homemade sourdough and other ambitious culinary efforts, made by my childless friends. Me? I put my own starter in the oven, attempting to revive it with a feeding and the warmth from the pilot light, then turned on the oven to make dinner, melting the plastic container and torching the starter within.
我来你从旧金山apartme(小)nt, where my family of four, which includes my sons, ages 8 and 6, have been sheltering-in-place since March 13. In the pre-COVID era, I made my living as thelunch ladyat my boys’ school, and I also writecookbooks, as well as a weekly home cooking column forThe San Francisco Chronicle.
And while my professional qualifications might have you believing that I’ve adapted easily to cooking 84 meals (4 people x 3 meals x 7 days) a week,plus snacks, the reality is that this is really challenging. If I’m feeling overwhelmed, I can only imagine how others, unaccustomed to the rigors of cooking for kids every day, are faring. I want to help, so I made this list of things that are helping me manage the care and feeding of children during this strange, scary time.
Feed on Schedule
If my experience as a lunch lady has taught me anything, it is that feeding kids on a schedule is key to daily survival with a minimum of breakdowns. My kids are conditioned to receive morning and afternoon snacks, with breakfast before and lunch in between, and then an early dinner. I learned in our first week at home that maintaining this schedule helped keep my kids (whose routines and social lives have also been disrupted, I try to remember) even-keeled all day, and not constantly whining for snacks. Which brings me to my next point…
All-Day Eating
My kids want to eat constantly. If you have younger kids, you might be on the hook for providing and serving everything. But if you’ve got older kids (or even one older kid, who can help the younger sibling), let them get their own snacks. I’ve set up a “snack station” in a mixing bowl set near their “desk,” which also happens to be our dining room table. That way, my kids can choose their own healthy snacks during the day instead of driving me insane with their requests. The waystation has fruit and crackers and seaweed and cheese sticks (they eat those quickly enough that I don’t worry about the lack of refrigeration), and I replenish it as needed. They know they can help themselves from these snacks whenever they want; they have control not only of when they grab a snack, but also what they choose. And let’s be honest—whether we’re big or small, we’re all wishing for a little control right now.
When it comes to meals, I’m always trying to think ahead. At lunch time, I’m prepping for dinner, or for lunch the following day. If I’m grating cheese for quesadillas, I might also grate some for themacaroni and cheeseI have planned later in the week. If I’m cookingricefor dinner, I cook twice as much as I need and freeze half, so I have it on hand for a speedy hot dog fried rice or a quick side.